There is a common misconception that Islam does not grant proper rights to women. However, when we study Islam in the light of the Holy Qur’an and the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), we find a comprehensive system that honors, protects, and uplifts women in every stage of life. Islam establishes clear rights and responsibilities that ensure a woman’s dignity, security, and spiritual growth within society.
In Islam, both men and women are essential pillars of the family. While men are given certain responsibilities as providers and protectors, women are honored in their multiple roles as daughters, sisters, wives, and mothers. Each role carries immense respect and value. Marriage in Islam is not based on domination or mere physical satisfaction; rather, it is built upon love, mercy, and mutual respect. Allah created spouses so that they may live together peacefully and make their homes a place of comfort and harmony.
Rights of Wives According to Hadith
Islam emphasizes kindness, compassion, and good character in marital relationships. The Prophet (peace be upon him) set the best example in his treatment of his family. He said:
“The best of you is the best to his family, and I am the best of you to my family.”
In another narration, he said:
“The most perfect believer in faith is the one whose character is finest and who is kindest to his wife.” (Tirmidhi)
These teachings clearly show that treating one’s wife with respect, love, and good manners is not optional—it is a sign of strong faith.
A husband is commanded not to harm, insult, or degrade his wife. He must not expose her secrets or private matters. The Prophet (peace be upon him) warned:
“Among the worst people in the sight of Allah on the Day of Judgment is a man who is intimate with his wife and then spreads her secrets.” (Sahih Muslim)
Islam also teaches balance and patience in marriage. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:
“A believing man should not hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another.” (Muslim)
This guidance encourages husbands to focus on the positive qualities of their wives and maintain harmony in the home.
Rights of Wives According to the Qur’an
The Holy Qur’an commands men to treat their wives honorably and live with them in kindness. Allah says:
“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who reflect.” (Qur’an 30:21)
Before Islam, women in many societies were treated as property and deprived of basic rights. Islam changed this completely by granting women legal identity, inheritance rights, the right to own property, and the right to choose or refuse marriage. A woman is not required to change her name after marriage, and she has the right to seek separation (khula) if the marriage cannot continue. She may also remarry after divorce or the death of her husband.
Financial security is also a fundamental right of a wife. The husband is responsible for providing food, clothing, and shelter according to his ability. Allah says:
“…And upon the father is the mother’s provision and her clothing according to what is reasonable…” (Qur’an 2:233)
The Prophet (peace be upon him) also emphasized financial responsibility. When a man told him he had a dinar to spend, the Prophet advised him to spend it on himself, then on his wife, then on his children, showing the priority of family care (Sunan an-Nasa’i).
Islam also corrected the misunderstanding regarding dowry. In Islam, the mahr (dowry) is not given by the bride’s family; rather, it is a gift from the husband to the wife, and it belongs solely to her. Allah says:
“And give the women their dowries graciously…” (Qur’an 4:4)
This demonstrates the financial respect and independence granted to women in Islam.
Conclusion
In Islam, a man is appointed as the guardian and caretaker of the family, but this role comes with responsibility, accountability, and kindness. A woman is not inferior; she is a respected and honored human being with clearly defined rights and protections.
Islam provides a balanced system in which both husband and wife work together to build a peaceful and loving home. When practiced correctly, Islamic teachings ensure dignity, safety, and mutual respect for women in every aspect of life.
May Allah grant us the understanding and strength to live according to His guidance and treat one another with justice, mercy, and compassion. Ameen.